Well, you might be surprised to learn that a Chinese Horoscope chart not only shows you what your superpower elements are and what colours to wear on dates, but it also shows you the natural energies throughout the course of your life - known as The Big Fate - and this can indicate to you when the best times are for you to be in a relationship. 

Your Self-Element could be water, wood, fire, earth or metal - each element has unique qualities that will be revealed in your innermost thoughts and feelings and in your behaviour. Following the creation and control of Five Element theory, your Self-element also relates the the elements of time periods, which means that you could be in a career phase, a money making phase, a child bearing phase or a phase focussing on your self and your health, for example. There are far more nuances to this and it doesn't mean you can't have a relationship AND a career for example, but it does help us better understand your unique needs and the best times to support your journey to creating a fulfilling love relationship. 

The Chinese astrology chart I 'open' for you can even distinguish between the best times to attract a husband/wife/life partner and when you might be best with a more light hearted relationship with a lover, for example.  Not all relationships are meant to last forever, and you can still have a beautifully meaningful and respectful monogamous relationship with someone and neither have any intention to marry. 

The 'Big Fate' analysis in your Chinese Astrology tells us the themes for each 5 year 'fate period' and can even give insight into when you might well be best off celibate or dedicated to your career or your spiritual development. 

Society can bombard us with messages of what success is supposed to be, what a man or woman's role in life is supposed to be...you might be the only single person in the family, or single for over a decade. It can be hard not to internalise this as some sort of failing on your part. Fortunately, I know how you might be feeling, and while I have been very lucky to experience true love twice in my life, I have not stayed with them (for good reasons) and also have had my fair share of Mr Wrongs! So, I love it especially when the advice I give and the information in a chart makes single women sigh a breath of relief - they stop blaming themselves and see that its not the right time for them for a relationship, based on their chart, or that the following year is better and this year they would be wise to focus on their career, for example... knowing the themes of the road ahead is not prediction necessarily but more like sign posts. Making the most of the NOW is what it is ALL about, whether on your own or in a divine coupling.  It is wonderful to see the look on someone's face when they let go of a nagging sense of stigma from their life and an unhelpful inner dialogue. It's so gratifying. 

Remember, Feng Shui is about optimising your environment, and horoscope/timing is about alignment, but you also need to be mindful of your inner feng shui and your beliefs. You can have great feng shui and be in the best timing period, but still have problems attracting the right type of partner, due to unidentified unsupportive beliefs or painful experiences from the past etc. We can work with that on a bespoke horoscope consultation. When we are able to identify the times in your life that didn't work out well, it actually helps you to move forward - understanding creates a magic that helps you let go. 

And for the fullest support possible,  I have an amazing world renowned dating & relationship expert that I can refer you to, who has a wonderful holistic and tantra background who  can help you identify disempowering behaviour and dating traps and move you towards a much more magnetic and abundance minded dating attitude. I work closely with her - she gets your inner game right, and I help you with your feng shui and styling/colours and timing. Do get in touch for further details.